What is friendship?
(You want to know what i think friendship is??)
I think friendship is : saying... Thank you... and meaning it
: saying...I missed you...and meaning it
: saying...I understand...and being there
: saying...I care, and I know what it's like...and crying and
comforting me.
Yes yes.....we know all these....we all have experienced it at one level or another with people and he friends that we have in our lives....but let me tell you what really Friendship means to me...and what i have seen my friends do to me or for me....
So Friendship is to me: When you go visit old friends and they give you their guest room to sleep in....(a room which isn't used much, with not much in it) an they come in and notice that you don't have anything nice in the room except the bed, a night table and a cupboard and they think it's too empty for you....and they come and bring a flower in the room to make it pretty for you...and to bring you a smile.
(Tks Pat, from Germany)
Friendship is: When a friend comes over to visit and before she leaves she gives you a Thank you card....where she thanks you in detail for all that you have done for her all those days she was there...( not knowing that she was the blessing for me).
(Tks Serena, from Bulgaria)
Friendship is: When you spend a whole day talking and chatting online and talk about nothing and everything to a friend you haven't seen for years and then at the end of the day says: We spend a whole day together ...and even watched a movie. I really really miss you and want to see you again.
(Tks Aliah, from Romania Bucharest) I miss you too...will see you soon...
Friendship is: When someone talks to you when they see that your down, when they talk to you because they are down and although they don't feel like talking they still talk to you personally....and they enjoy a coffee thinking of you.
(Tks Ramona, Romania, Galati)
Friendhsip is: When someone calls you up in the evening at the end of an hard working day and says: Let's meet up...I want to take you some place special.....and next thing you find yourself in the biggest amusement park in Europe. (Europe Park)......and that just because they care.
(Tks Carmen, Germany, Staufen)
Friendship is: When...you go visit a friend and she hardly has money and struggles with problems but it's doing better then you financially....and you go into a shop and you look at things you could not afford....and the she asks: Do you like that T-shirt? I will buy it for you....just because she wants to and knows what it's like to be poor.
(Tks Andreea, Romania, Arad....now in Belgium, Bruxelle) I love you too my soul sister.
Friendship is: When you go through a very hard time and you both feel the same way....you both feel like dying.... Then you take a trip together up on the highest mountain peak and there you both laugh and forget about your problems....and you make a promises to each other to never feel the same again, and when time comes and one has to go earlier then the other.....to meet up there on that peak and talk again....and to spread in the wind on the same spot our remains....
(Tks Bobby, Romania, Fagaras)....My soul brother I haven't forgotten our old promises I hope you haven't either.
Friendship is: When it's your birthday and everyone has forgotten about it (like it usually happens).....and then nice and quietly your 2 very good friends invite you over to spend the night...and then they come in the room at 12:00 and bring a small little muffin with a tiny candle and sing: Happy Birthday next to the Christmas tree.
Just cause they haven't forgotten.
(Tks Delia& Ioana Tripa, Romania, Arad.....(Delia, France, Paris) You have been there in my heart for long a long long time....we shared to many moments together....but even thou we are apart now....time and distance wont make me forget you girls.
Friendship is: When you're all sad and don;t feel like dancing or smiling or talking to your best friend who knows your problem....doesn't judge you that you don't talk to her although she is out with you....and she is trying everything is possible to make you smile again.....and when nothing works....decides to make of full out of herself in public,....jumping like a bunny, wagging a tale. Now that really made my day....could not resist to laugh and I could never forget what you have done for me.
(Tks Ioana Tripa, Romania, Arad) No....don't think I forgot you...even thou now we have separated our ways....Maybe we will meet again and will be able to say sorry...
Friendship is: When you make me laugh with your silliness when i come to visit or you come to visit...and when you put me to shame when you tell me about your problems and i see how you handle them so well and you stay always so positive no meter what. I love the way you keep your spirit so young and I love your beautiful handy work that takes so much work....I just love your necklaces they make me look so pretty.
(Tks Kira, Romania, Sibiu 'from Russia')
Friendship is: When a date is gone bad....and you feel unloved and unattractive....with no hope.........she tells you: I will slap you if I hear you saying that again...She is always there with these kind of words to wake me up when I feel like it's all my fault and I'm not cut up for this stuff...
(Tks Julia, Romania, BUcharest)
Friendship is: When although we are so very different and many times our opinions don't coincide and we fight to the point of breaking up....next time we meet, or we call... you always say the most beautiful words to me and about me. You always call me a dall...Hihi...I like that.
(Tks Gabitza, Romania, Arad) your between my oldest friendships...and in spite our differences it just shows that Love is what unites us.... Miss you bro from the hood. :P
Friendship is: When I call....the first thing is: What can I do for you? How can I help you? Your love has showed me 1000 times how important I'm to you...and I cannot enumerate in here all that you have done for me cause it would take me days and days and many pages to write....For you there's more then Thank you....I don't know what word would that be.... something higher then Thank you. I would have to invent one. I can only say that all that I am today, all that I have become...it is all tks to you two. The most awesome parents-friends my Lord gave me....as a present from heaven. I love you guys...I owe my life to you.
(Tks Peter and Esther, Switzerland, Zurich)
....and this is just fragments and small little things that has melt my heart, of-course there is so much more that you have done for me....somethings that i might have forgotten and things that are worthy of writings books about it...and maybe one day I will write one about you all and what you have done for me.
There are many more ppl that i call friends and they are....but these have been for so long in my life and have influenced me a lot through their amazing acts of kindness and love......So this is for you all
