Most beautiful things
about Women
It’s women’s day and the topic is shifting to women and their importance, achievement and so on. On this occasion I decided to take a tour of the campus and asked various colleges going students what they felt was the most amazing things about girls? What was it about them that they are the favorite subjects of poets and men have laid down lives for them? From emotional and serious to heartfelt and wacky, here are the answers the guys came up with. I have chosen the best and the most common. So here goes:
1.
It is amazing how women are so wonderfully giving and loving. Their love is unconditional and forever. And once they forgive, they really forget. They don’t dig out the heavy artillery, even when they have the best opportunities to do so.
2.
It is lovely how women manage to hear you out for hours. They never pass judgments. Never say you are wrong (even if you have behaved like the worst jerk in the world). And when you ask for their opinion they give it without managing to make you feel a worm. They criticize without wounding.
3.
The most adorable thing about a women is her blush. It speaks volumes and conveys things which even she won’t openly admit too. It is a real turn on when a women blushes at you. It shows she more than cares, she is crazy about you.
4.
A smile. I dig women’s smile. Now when women smiles, she really smiles. No pretences, She smiles from her heart and speaks with her eyes. It is amazing how many ways women smiles. She has a tender smile, a loving smile, a “what will I do with you” kinda smile. A saucy grin. a smile of gentle indulgence and finally the best of them the complete smile. The smile that says “Whatever you are, however you are, I love you”
5.
The way they get all in a frenzy, when they want to let you know of their achievements. Their eyes say “I want you to be proud of me” but they will die rather than admit it, After all they only wanted to let you know.
6.
I love a woman when she loses her temper. She gets all fluttered, says all sort of things she doesn’t mean, is generally very harsh and then bursts into tears. Now help me out here, who is one being yelled at?
7.
I am amazed at the reticence of a woman. If men were dished even half the crap some women are dished out every day we would raise a hue and cry. But women bear it all and come out smiling. They even manage to love the jerk who does it all to them.
8.
I love the general “do-good” attitude that is an undeniable part of every woman. They are out to reform everyone. They will give you sermons on all your vices (by the number of ‘vices’ they list you will feel a worse insect than Satan will) and tell you have to reform to be a “better” person. And will be hurt if you don’t wanna change.
9.
I know you may think me a sadist due to this but personally I think the most beautiful and irresistible thing about a woman is her tear. It is guaranteed to break down the hardest of resistances and melt the stoniest hearts. On the other side it also shows the breaking of all the barriers a woman builds up. When a woman is crying she is opening up completely before you and trusts you enough for it.
10.
And finally the answer I heard most often, “I can’t tell you any single thing that I love about a woman, It is the perfect mix that makes men go weak-kneed. The sensuality combined with nurturing, the naughtiness combined with caring, the vivacity coupled with quiet understanding. It is a heady mix and man, it is very intoxicating.
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Perfect Love
The perfect Love
Love… What is Love?
Everyone is searching for Love today. Ever body wants to be loved or to love someone dear and special. But what is really love?
When God created us he created us with Love, for Love and to give Love. He made us in his perfect image, He made us to Love us and us to Love him. When he made us and our souls he gave us free choice so that we wouldn’t just be robots or some puppets, he wanted us to choose to love him or to receive his love. But he purposely made two holes within our souls. He created this void within our souls that only he could fill it in and no one else. That’s why man is always on the lookout, always searching, trying to fill in that void with something. That’s why many times when he does not find it or in the world, he fills empty and depressed. But this is only for a time; an appointed time in God’s plan, to save the world and mankind That man should find him and find his way back to him and in his arms and his void gets filled with love because god himself is love. Now, how can I know what is love or who is love? But what does Love look like. How can we see it and recognize it? How does it manifest itself? It has many forms in the world today and the world has a little idea about it. The devil made sure to distort it in time, to rub away its splendor and its true meaning. We hear, today in the world, the word Love almost everywhere at every corner, tossed around by man. We hear it songs, books and dirty magazines, on TV, movies, in the mouth of harlots and depraved people. It’s everywhere. People are consumed to the point of going insane with this idea of finding Love and true Love. They are searching it everywhere in anything they can find, except where they should. They are not looking and become disappointed. They close their hearts, turn cold, and blame God for it. We hear Love here, Love there. This word is being tossed around and taken for granted. People use this word for everything and for everyone. It has taken a form of habit, just another word in our vocabulary. It has lost it’s beautiful meaning, that God had intended it for. So what is Love? How does it manifest itself, what is it’s true meaning, and what was it created for. As I said before God is Love, and God is perfect, so Love is also perfect. If you open your eyes to the truth, and if you really want to find it you just have to open your heart and look around you. You will find it everywhere surrounding you. You will find it in the most peculiar places. In the places where you never looked before or even thought of, for that matter. Love is in the smell of a rose, in it’s full bloom, in the song of a bird in spring time, in the smile of an innocent baby, in the words of a poor beggar. Who can offer you more help and comfort than a rich man. Love is in the little things, they are sometimes hidden but they are there. They pop up when they are least excepted to make your day better, when everything seems to crumble down around you, and all things seem gray. The little things are what brings color in our lives, when we need it most. It’s what brings life back and refreshment to our bones. Its what we all dream of, it’s called perfect Love. It’s like a rainbow after a rain, it’s like spring after a horrid winter, it’s like the sun after a summer storm, like day after a dark night, like when Love takes place after fear. Its called perfect Love. Perfect Love comes by night, when you least expect it, like a groom coming in the middle of the night to see his beautiful wife to be, burning by the desire of Love, inpatient to share his Love with his beloved. Love is patient, Love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, it is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrong doings. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres. The one other void that God has created in us was meant to be filled by that special one, that he has created and perfected for us from the beginning. That one special soul mate, who is meant to come in our lives, at the perfect timing of God, when the two souls are ready and perfected to become one soul when they need. At the right time and the perfect place, that has been appointed and meticulously planned by God, the roads of the two intersect. Without expecting, without planning it, or even dreaming it, it just happens in a moment where perhaps the two souls were giving up hope. Perhaps they were just hurt or bleeding, swearing to themselves never to love again, promising to just look for their own good, and then they suddenly bump into each other. When that happens they look into each others eyes and without knowing they recognize each other although they don’t want to believe it anymore. Afraid to give into Love again and be hurt. Little do they know in the beginning, that their ways were meant to collide and that they were meant to be, from the beginning.
In another time and place once they knew each other, and were separated to find themselves, God and their souls. They don’t know that fate and true love has brought them together. They don’t know that they walked once, listened to the same song, grew up in two different places of the world and it’s their feet that brought and attracted them towards each other. They met half way in a place where they, with or without their own will, have ended up to be. Little do they know at first that all their troubles and disappointments have only worked for their own good, only to prepare them for each other and to make them ready for what was set before them. All this time they were made ready and perfected for each other so that when they would meet, they would recognize each other and know how to appreciate one another. Tests and problems would come their way from the beginning to show if they are ready for each other if they know how to handle them and to make them see in each other their character and to realize how ready they are for what’s to come. Have they learned their lessons from their past mistakes? Are they ready for each other? But that’s not a matter of a question. For when they are the real soul mates and they are walking in God’s perfect plan they will achieve in everything that will be set before them in such a way that will bring out what God has put in them all those years of preparation. Nothing will stop them, answers and wisdom will come instantly in their ways and will be their companions. For what is meant to be is meant to be. Not even the past hurts or past “loves” and temptations can disturb their love. Things do come cause the devil ,the king of darkness, hates God’s plan and hates perfect Love. His trying attempts are pitiful. He is sending in the ways of the two souls all kinds of old temptations, old unsatisfied loves and lovers to lure them away from each other and destroy the plan. Even if for a small time which can for the two seem an eternity and in the same time just a few minutes, he can achieve to set them apart from another and look away and play with their past, the two souls are still meant for a greater purpose. No devil in hell can fight and destroy what God has planned from the beginning. Their meeting and their reencounter with one another will be so much better, so much sweeter than before cause then they will know that their ways were meant to cross and nothing was just a coincidence. Then they will know what they had and what they lost, then they will know what they looked for their entire life, and then they will know the meaning of perfect love in it’s beauty. Then they will be whole, one soul, in a higher greater plan, set by the greatest author of the universe. Their story was written in the sky by the stars. The Perfector of love is looking down on us with the same kind of love, with the same eyes, the eyes of one who is in love and sees us perfect and with no fault. He has the perfect love for us. THE HAPPY ENDING
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